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The Studleys

The Anatomy of Marriage Podcast traces the almost failed marriage of the hosts, Melanie and Seth Studley, and explores parallel stories of other marriages with similar struggles.
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Now displaying: 2018
Jul 10, 2018

Today Seth and I talk about practical ideas, steps and tips that have helped us to heal and grow our own marriage, we also introduce new and intentional ways of working through conflict, like the Sticky Note Intervention, that may help you and your partner build a better relationship! 

Don't forget to visit marriagesupply.com for 10% your purchase until August 31st when you use Promo Code 10fromAOM. 

Check us out on Spotify!

Support the podcast by visiting patreon.com/anatomyofmarriage and becoming a Patron today!   

 

Jul 3, 2018

Today I respond to Seth's video titled: 'Vulnerability, stopping negative thinking and being real as possible', and give you my take on positive and negative self-talk, reframing our thoughts and ideas, loving yourself, and SO MUCH MORE!

Jul 3, 2018

In this special episode Seth really lays it out there in hopes of first helping himself move through some things and then helping others.  He talks about being vulnerable, stopping negative thoughts in real time and the power of being truthful to yourself.

Jun 29, 2018

Today Seth and I talk about all things lady bizz, and all things menstruation! If you are a dude, PLEASE do NOT skip this episode, it is for you too!!

We want to take the taboo out of talking about our bodies and help normalize something that half of the world population goes through, and 100% of the world population needs, PERIODS! 

Some of the products that we talk about today include 

The Diva Cup  

Eve. period tracker app

Flex Menstruation Disc

 

AND...don't forget to check out the She Is Called Podcast! 

Jun 26, 2018

In today's video Seth and I talk about how to fight, how NOT to fight, the problem with flooding, ways to calm yourself, the importance of real self-reflection and SO MUCH MORE!!

AND.... I made a BUNCH of pdfs for this episode just in case you need that extra reminder to hang in your office at work, your bedroom, your living room, whatevs! Check them out at https://anatomyofmarriage.com/ under the Tools tab! 

Also, chekc out Dr. Claudia Grauf-Grounds book, We've Had This Fight Before It is AMAZING!!!

If our show helps you out please support us at patreon.com/anatomyofmarriage

And please leave us a rating or review on iTunes to help spread the word about our show! 

Jun 22, 2018

Seth and I explore what vulnerability looks like in our marriage, how to be responsible with your vulnerability, negative self-talk, tools to deal with anxiety, mindfulness, anger, meditation and SO MUCH MORE! 

Don't forget to visit marriagesupply.com and use promo code 10fromAOM to get10% off until August 31st.

Also, check out some of our favorite resources 

Braving The Wilderness, by Brene Brown 

Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life, by Dr. Wayne Dyer

Joyce Meyer Podcast 

AND... don't forget to get your free printable ANGER IS A CONSTRUCT POSTER!!! at anatomyofmarriage.com  

Jun 19, 2018

Seth and I created an episode for our listeners who have partners that are just not that into the Anatomy Of Marriage podcast…..yet!!

In this episode we talk about our story, how we survived domestic abuse, how we came out stronger and happier on the other side, and why we thought sharing the hardest parts of our journey was podcast worthy. There are clips from Season one and so much more!

We hope that this helps your partner get hooked on AOM, and don’t forget that this is a GREAT episode to share with friends as well!!!    

You can also WATCH THIS VIDEO on our YouTube Channel!!

And Here are links to the resources referenced in today's episode! 

anatomyofmarriage.com

Season #1 Workbook 

Letting Go pdf

Clearing Structure

 

Jun 15, 2018

This is a sneak peek of our ALL NEW Patreon Supported Video Series, available to listeners who donate $15 or more to our Patron each month!

Today Seth and I talk about our fear of school ending, what it is like when kids walk in on you “connecting and pleasing”, our summer plans for 2018, why Seth has stopped touching me, and so much more!

Next week we are doing an MTV Cribs style tour of Studley Manor, don't miss it! Head over to www.patreon.com/anatomyofmarriage and become a supporter of the pod today!! 

 

Jun 14, 2018

Seth and I dive into his Marriage and Family Therapy text books to look at the Bowenian approach to Family Systems Therapy and how it applies to Family Of Origin. 

Jun 12, 2018

Today Seth and I are excited to share some big news for the Anatomy Of Marriage Podcast, we aslo talk all about contraceptives, what we like, what we don’t like, and why we need to be having more open conversations about them! #slimetime

If you want more information about the different types of contraceptives available, please speak to your medical provider, or you can head over to optionsforsexualhealth.org and see what they have to say about it.

AND.....visit Marriagesupply.com to check out their amazing selection of marital enhancers and don't forget to use promo code 10fromAOM at check out for 10% off your purchase, good through August 31st!   

Jun 7, 2018

Seth and I conclude our conversation with the wonderful Deb Thomas, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who specializes in Sexuality and Family Systems. A few of the things that we cover include Menopause, Testosterone, changes that come with an empty nest, lube, Intimacy Retreats and SO MUCH MORE!

Check out Deb’s Blog Post, 'Help For Wives in Sexual Dispar(ity)' on our website!

And...please rate and review our show on iTunes, 400 here we come!!!!

Jun 5, 2018

Seth and I continue our Sex Therapy conversation with the wonderful Deb Thomas, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who specializes in Sex Therapy and Family Systems.

Today we talk about creating a Yes, No, Maybe list for Intimacy, childbirth and intimacy, family “naptime”, coping with an empty nest and SO MUCH MORE, enjoy!

Don't forget to rate and review our show on iTunes, this helps new listeners find the show! 

 

May 31, 2018

Seth and I sit down with the wonderful Deb Thomas, a Marriage and Family Therapist who also specializes in Sexuality and Family Systems. Deb helps us understand our bodies, why sex is like Thanksgiving Dinner, and how sexuality is impacted by mind, body emotions and spirit. We think that y’all are really going to love what Deb has to say!

And if you are enjoying the podcast please don’t forget to give us a rating and a review on iTunes, that helps other couples and individuals find us!

May 30, 2018

On Today's Listener Questions Episode Seth and I answer y’alls questions about how to create your very own Night Of Pleasure (N.O.P), why undressing in front of your husband can sometimes feel objectifying (well, to me anyway), and what to do if you are a high desire wife. We also talk about how we have changed during the Sex & Intimacy Series!

To learn more about Dr. Tina’s Passion For Life Couples Intimacy Retreats head to http://nwioi.com/retreats/  seriously... DO IT!!!!!


Also, please consider supporting our show financially by visiting https://www.patreon.com/anatomyofmarriage today! When you help us, we can help you! 

And if you can't donate financially please help us out by sharing our show with friends and family and rating and reviewing our show on iTunes

 

May 24, 2018

Seth and I sit down with Dr. Corey Allan and his wife Pam of Sexy Marriage Radio, as well as Caleb and Verlynda Simonyi-Gindele from the Marriage Podcast For Smart People, to talk about the best and worst marriage advice that we have received over the years.

We also talk debunk the ‘happy wife, happy life’ myth, talk about snowplow parenting, teamwork, and SO MUCH MORE!

Learn more about Pam and Dr. Corey Allan by visiting their website www.simplemarriage.net  and be sure to subscribe to their podcast, Sexy Marriage Radio, on iTunes

You can find out more about Caleb and Verlynda Simonyi-Gindele by visiting www.onlyyouforever.com and by listening to the Marriage Podcast For Smart People. 

And PLEASE don't forget to rate and review our show on iTunes!! 

May 22, 2018

In this Listener questions Episode Seth and I tackle lots of really big topics that range from the use of vibrators in marriage to better ways of modeling healthy and balanced sexuality in your home and for your children.

You won’t want to miss it!

Please consider supporting us financially by visiting www.patreon.com/anatomyofmarriage and giving a monthly donation that will help make the continuation of this show possible! 

 

May 15, 2018

Seth and I called up Dr. Stephen Snyder, a Sex and Relationship Therapist in Manhattan and the author of, Love Worth Making; How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Long-Lasting Relationship.

We talked about all sorts of amazing things like Sexual Differentiation, Verbal Intimacy, Inter-abled Relationships, Sex Knots, Neurological differences and SO MUCH MORE!

Check out Dr. Snyder's wonderful book HERE and learn more about his work by visiting loveworthmaking.com

If you are enjoying the Anatomy Of Marriage Podcast PLEASE rate and review our show and share it with your friends! 

 

May 11, 2018

Seth and I called up Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo of One Extraordinary Marriage Podcast and had a BLAST talking about everything from quickies to scheduling sex, and we promise that y'all are going to love their wisdom, insight and HUMOR!! 

Check them out at www.oneextraordinarymarriage.com

And if you haven't already rated the Anatomy Of Marriage podcast in iTunes please head on over and rate the show, this really helps people to find us!

May 8, 2018

In our final Sex Therapy Session with the AMAZING Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers we talk about why people are afraid to go to therapy, listening to and trusting your heart and body, why churches in the U.S. have stick figure depictions of Adam and Eve and a TON more!!


If you would like to learn more about Dr. Tina and her work head on over to

www.tinaschermersellers.com,

http://www.thankgodforsex.org/,

or http://nwioi.com/

you can also find her book Sex, God & The Conservative Church wherever books are sold.

And please rate and review the podcast by heading over to iTunes 

 

May 3, 2018

In today’s Listener Questions Episode Seth and I answer a single question about pornography as well as the topics of mindful masturbation, creating a healthy idea of our sexuality as individuals and in marriage and so much more! 

You won’t want to miss this one... and you also WON'T want to listen with kids around!!

For more free Tools and Resources visit our website https://anatomyofmarriage.com/ 

May 1, 2018

Seth and I continue our Sex Therapy Session with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers but this week we step back and let her wisdom take center stage! 

We talk about the impact of not seeing positive examples of relationships in the media and in culture, the importance of nurturing our marriages and making them a priority, self acceptance in marriage, and so much more.

To learn more about Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers and her amazing work head over to   

www.tinaschermersellers.com

http://www.thankgodforsex.org/

Or check out her book Sex, God & The Conservative Church 

If you find value in our show please consider supporting us financially by visiting https://www.patreon.com/anatomyofmarriage

 

 

Apr 26, 2018

Seth and I answer your questions about low sex drive, loss of desire for your partner, grieving the loss of trust in your marriage and how to reframe a negative situation to get positive results.

If you have a question that you would like us to answer on the show send it in to anatomyofmarriage@gmail.com  

And if you would like to support what we are doing please head over to https://www.patreon.com/anatomyofmarriage and become an AOM Patron!!

 

 

Apr 24, 2018

Seth and I continue our Sex Therapy Session with the amazing Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers!

In this episode we talk about how to reclaim healthy sexuality, how past rejection can shut couples off sexually, talking about sex with your spouse in a new and constructive way, what we teach our children about sexuality with our silence and SO MUCH MORE!

To learn more about Dr. Tina or to find Certified Sex Therapist near you visit nwioi.com 

And if the Anatomy Of Marriage Podcast has been helpful to you please consider supporting the show financially! Visit patreon.com/anatomyofmarriage and support what you LOVE! 

Apr 19, 2018

Seth and I answer your questions about Purity Culture, shame vs. guilt in our relationships, how to share your sexual past with a future partner and so much more! 

If you have a question for the podcast click here to send it in! 

And don't forget to share the podcast with your community, your church and your friends! 

 

Apr 17, 2018

Seth and I let y'all be a fly on the wall during our Sex Therapy Session with the amazing Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers.

We talk about... how to get out of your own head when it comes to pleasure, tapping into your sensual self, spontaneous vs. responsive desire, how insecurity can stop connection and so much more!!

To learn more about Dr. Tina’s work visit NWIOI.com, and be sure to check our her book Sex, God & The Conservative Church

If you find our show helpful please consider supporting us financially, visit https://www.patreon.com/anatomyofmarriage and help make the Anatomy Of Marriage Podcast possible! 

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