Today is Part 2 of our Divorce Series where Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers shares parts of her own divorce journey, and Carla responds to the generalized idea that couples who choose divorce just “haven’t tried hard enough”. We also talk about supporting friends and family through a divorce, how to talk to children in a healthy way about divorce, crafting a plan to help families do divorce well, and so much more.
Learn more about Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers
http://tinaschermersellers.com/
http://www.thankgodforsex.org/
Sex, God & The Conservative Church
Learn more about Carla's work
Seth and I sit down with the wonderful Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers and Carla Ewert to discuss the intimate details of divorce. In this episode, which is the first of a four part Series, we talk about the impact that gender roles, patriarchy, Purity culture and differentiation have in our relationships, and what we can do to change those patterns and beliefs. We also discuss what it means to “take up all of your space” in the world, how we can unlearn the “threat” of collaboration, and what it takes to be fully yourself in a relationship.
To learn more about Dr. Tina and Carla you can visit their websites
Dr. Tina
http://tinaschermersellers.com/
http://www.thankgodforsex.org/
Sex, God & The Conservative Church
Carla
Seth and I had the privilege of hanging out with the wonderful Aaron Walker, Community Leader, Small Business Owner and Author of View From The Top, and the three of us talked about what he has learned in his 38 years of marriage. Everything from having a Growth Mindset, Marrying into the Family, Learning Together as a couple, having Shared Marriage Goals, and the dangers of comparing your spouse to someone else.
Be sure to check out viewfromthetop.com there you can find Aaron's book and learn about him and his Masterminds.
And don't forget to take his Spouse Survey!
Seth and I are joined by the wonderful Dr. Corey and Pam Allen of Sexy Marriage Radio Podcast and Caleb and Verlynda Simonyi-Gindele of Only you Forever Podcast, and we all discuss ruts, the patterns and behaviors that get us stuck and feeling disheartened in our relationships. We also share our thoughts and ideas about simple ways to break free from the mundane!
Today Seth and I answer y’alls questions about how you know when you are ready to start dating, dealing with the desire to have premarital sex, finding balance in yourself, and we show you all of our tattoos!!